[JonThink]

Thanks for the input from blueeyes4you. I suppose that might work. However, she knows she turns me on when I am just looking at her nude. So she might not believe the part that I don't find her sexy or attractive. Also, I consider this problem with her Puritan Ethic to be a value judgment. I don't know if taking a punitive approach with a person that just has different values is appropriate. I would rather use an approach that alters those values to coincide with mine -- if possible. She is not refusing to hard swap in a nasty way. She really thinks what she did was wrong -- although I have assured her it was not. She was just enjoying herself with good ol' lustful sex and having the time of her life doing so. It was a great combination of slow, rough, fast and plain ol' dirty sex that she let herself have for a change. And she was in Heaven for that period of time. Then the ethics thing kicked in and she wants to stop all sex with any person other than the two of us.


So I need some female guidance. How do I get her to alter her ethical inhibitions? Certainly there is a woman out there that has gone through this same dichotomy before. Thanks in advance for any suggestions.