Unless it's mutually agreed breakup sex, I tend to find that the worst sex I have is generally towards the end of a relationship.
Everything is boring and so predictable, there also appears to be a new lack of connectivity and lack of passion between the two parties.
Occasionally this change in mood manifests into a hate fuck (you really dint want to go here) You just turn the light off and mechanically thrust into a hole. No touching of tits, no kissing, no foreplay you just want to discharge your load in something tight and moist and then fall asleep . No thought about the other party, all that's running through your mind is the image of the babe you saw at the pool/beach/gym last week and who is definitely way out of your league.
Hate fucks are not great and just do your head in. If you fall into these sessions , it is really time to move on and find someone you can connect with once again.
If it's become a chore to do the bedroom olympics or worse if your partner makes you feel like it's some big treat that you're invited to the annual switching on of the Christmas lights .....
Then it's time to move on.
With marriage out of the way, kids all grown up and a place of my own It's easy for me. It may not be for others.
I'm happy with a partner that I can make out with on a regular basis. If the frequency is not to my liking, I find someone else (or cheat)
Life is too short to be stuck in a relationship with just occasional and mediocre sex.
So each relationship has its share if
'bad sex' associated with it at some point.
If I was to give you some specifics then here are a few examples which were
'bad' in their own ways.
V8 was good in bed, a petite frame, had a tight pussy and an interesting Brazilian pubic cut when it wasn't fashionable.. However the moment I had cum inside her she would tell me to get out of the bed, get dressed and go home. No matter what the weather or how drunk / tired we were I had to leave. There was no second wild fucks in the middle of the night or romantic embraces and hugs in the morning which build a relationship .
Yes it was sex but very odd. I asked here one day what was wrong and she said she had been abused when younger and couldn't let any men get close to her.
She was a nice lady and if was a shame she wouldn't let any one get close to help her. She was very insecure.
More on
her
N20 had a body to die for but I had to be invited over to her side of the bed to enjoy it with foreplay before we had to roll back to my side so that I could ejaculate. Bottom line she didn't like cum in the slightest, I would say she hated the stuff. It would get to the point where she even hit me on one occasion when some touched her milky white skin. The more she shunned my cum the more of a challenge it was for me to think of ways to cover her in it .
An example of her loathing of
cum
S23 liked to keep her lady bits in good shape. A surgeon had given her a really tight pussy post a hysterectomy operation and she she even shaved it bald for me.
All sounds to be good to be true. Well there was a dark side to her love slot in that she would powder it each night with talcum powder. It would make a mess on the bathroom floor and was a pain to clear up, peppered remnants of that white powder looked awful on her arse and worst of all was the taste that just dried your mouth if you went down on her.
We had good sex but it got predictable as I had seen her full range of sexy knickers (just three pairs all the same style but different colours) inside three weeks of a four month relationship. Furthermore she was a little reluctant for me to put my full length into her tiny slot and would only wish to take the first part of my member inside her. Basically I was way too big for her and our final few sessions were ones where I would experiment on positions to see how much length was enough for her and then how much was too much. (I suppose it was kind of a
'hate fuck'?)
The bad sex (for her) was that I was just too big!
Now how many people can say that a humble 8 inch cock is just too big? It makes me want to do a threesome with a horny chick and a black dude just to make me feel bad and inadequate.
More on
S23 here