So, I recently caught up with my (female) former roommate (I wrote about her
here) with whom I'm still very close. We went out together and both got pretty wasted. At some point – which was a first for us – we started talking about our - or let's say
her - sex life.
As I wrote in the other post: We both shared an apartment for a few years and it always seemed to me like she had a very unspectacular sex life. At first she had a boyfriend whom she had sex with regularly and I also heard her masturbating in the shower and her bedroom a few times. But I always assumed her on the more prudish side. She is very ordinary looking, never used much make-up, never dressed sexy, always felt very feminist etc. The only vaguely sexual conversation we ever had was when we discussed grooming habits and she told me that she'd never ever shave her bush because "that'd be weird".
Anyway: So, we're in this bar and we’re both drunk. I don't even know how this part of the conversation started but at some point I said something along the lines of how weird anal sex must feel for women. She then looked away from me and only said "mhh.. well..." So I asked her what she meant with this and she still wouldn't answer. So I straight up asked her "Do you have had anal sex?" and all of a sudden she looked straight at me and said "Mhh, let's just say I've gotten ass fucked a few times in my life." I swear to god, she didn't even say "anal" - she straight up said "I've been ass fucked". She then made me guess whom her boyfriends she had anal with (I guessed correctly).
I was flabbergasted - but I also felt she was in a sharing mood, so I continued to ask her questions. First I wanted to know why she even did it (a female friend of her is "basically anal only" (her words) so she wanted to try it as well) and if she enjoyed it (she said there are other things she'd enjoy much more but it was "okay"). Then I asked her which positions they did it in and she said they did it in doggy and while in missionary - and she enjoyed the latter more because "her hands were free to do other things". Finally I asked her if he came in her ass too (It feels so weird that I've actually asked her this but... well... as I said: I was pretty drunk!) but she said she didn't remember (I guess that was one question too many, haha).
All in all a quite unexpected conversation.