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A crazy thing happened to me the other day. A very good friend of mine approached me with a request. I should stop and explain a little more about her and our relationship. I have known her for almost 30 years. She is in her 50s but could easily pass for 30s. It isn’t just her looks, even though she is petite, lightly curved, with great skin but her personality as well. She is very vivacious. We’ve had a friends with occasional benefits relationship for a number of years. She has a very high sex drive so she has had several FWB or did until about a year ago. About a year and a half ago she started seeing a guy. I’ve met him. He’s a very nice guy, treats her well, good-looking, fit, and very – very young.

When they started seeing each other he said he was 10 years younger than her. She found out that he is actually 17 years younger than her. Even though there were some generational issues it worked out pretty good for her. He can keep up with her inside and outside of the bedroom. They do things together and have a lot of fun.
When they first started, he knew she saw other men. He didn’t like it, but he was smart enough not to call her on it. As their relationship progressed she voluntarily backed off and stopped seeing her other friends or at least stop having benefits with them because she knew it bothered him. She and I were friends first, so we stayed friends and we still see each other for occasional lunch or cocktails but nothing physical except for a hug and light kiss. A few months ago at one of our regular lunches she confided in me that things had started to go a little stale. They still have lots of sex but it was getting more routine without much fanfare. She even brought a girlfriend to bed with them. He liked it but wasn’t interested in continuing it. I think he was more afraid that she would want him reciprocate and have a threesome with another man. I probed a little more and found out it wasn’t really sex that was lacking but it was the absence of foreplay. He could still give her multiple orgasms pretty much every time, but his idea of preparation was essentially spitting on his dick.

That is a completely unfair over exaggeration on my part. She didn’t say it or even hint at. But the reason I got upset with it is that it was such a waste. A large part of her and my relationship involved teasing and playing and all that touching and attention that makes up foreplay. I loved to drive her absolutely crazy. She would get dripping wet. The game would be to get her to the point that she demanded I get inside her. There was a lot of kissing, touching, massages, even pedicures. She has very sensitive feet. And my particular kink is to perform oral on her until she came at least once before sex. She of course would fight back and sometimes these foreplay sessions would go on for hours. It was a lot of fun and well worth it in the end. That might have been why she felt so comfortable opening up to me like that. At the time I joked that he and I should tag out. I would get her nice and worked up and he could fuck her brains out. Or more probably the reverse, she would fuck his brains out. Something like a modern-day, X-rated Cyrano de Bergerac.

We really didn’t talk about it much after that. I knew her well enough to know that she didn’t like to say bad things about her boyfriend and opening up to me was hard for her. Then the other day while we were having lunch, out of the blue she reminded me of my comment and asked if I was serious. I of course quickly said “sure” but she came back and said “no I’m serious would you really be willing to do something like that without getting any yourself. No reciprocation. And you can’t kissed me on the mouth, finger me, go down on me or make me cum. There is nothing in it for you and he can’t know.” I stopped and really thought about it. I didn’t tell her, but I realized there were several things in it for me. First I would get to spend at least couple hours of quality time with her. Second there was a definite ego boost in the fact that I could do something that her young stud muffin couldn’t. And third, if I do it right, there was a good possibly that she’d want me to do it again. There was a fourth. The fact that we were doing it behind his back was kind of thrilling. So I said yes.

I am working out the details of how to pull this off and will let you know how it goes if you are interested.