Similar timeline and successes
I celebrate your good luck! Like you, I had some success with threesomes back in the 1970's (for me it wad ads in regional swinger magazines instead of liberal-minded social scenes, but otherwise very similar in tone and personalities). I took a long break and then was surprised at how many couples were open to having me join them for sexual fun as an average-looking single guy in his 50's. The magazines had morphed into regional swinger websites along with an on-site members-only club in a metro area. It sounds like you learned the same lessons I did: a single guy does not need to look like Harrison Ford but he does need to understand how to make a connection with people in a respectful and patient way. Understanding in particular that the woman in these interactions deserves to be listened to and allowed to make a decision with no feeling of pressure or judgement is, I think, the key. I can almost-always find something to praise about a couple and making that obvious in conversation opens a lot of doors (and, eventually, opens a lot of thighs...yummy).
I hope you find the time to tell more of your stories. I, for one, will be happy to read and comment.
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