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Originally Posted by Loretta 1976
I do not want a divorce. I just want my husband to come to his senses. He has been torturing me mentally.
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He won't. I'm sorry, but he won't. You've described a deeply insensitive man, who is keeping you down to keep you in his life - he is insecure and fears you'll leave, but he's making that happen by treating you this way. For your own mental health, and that of any children living with you (I can't remember if you have any), you need to leave him. After the shock sets in when you do, he'll say that he'll change, but it's a lie and a desperate attempt to hold onto you. At the very best, he'll be a better person for his next victim, er, partner.
The relationship you describe won't get fixed by therapy or his decision to change. He doesn't want to.
Then slap the groping little midget at the AA meeting!
Seriously - the stories you are telling are fucked up, and you shouldn't accept this kind of treatment.
If you're real
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