I am a bit confused. Should you what? Call her to find out why she does it?
I have known a couple of "hypersexual" women. As someone said above, they usually have some baggage. But my experience has also been that they don't like to ask deep, probing questions about their motivations. I don't know if it dredges up the baggage, or implies that they're not "normal", or what. But they don't like it. At best she'll ignore the question and at worst she will get upset, perhaps dangerously so.
Two things I know. First, stay out of her marriage. That is between the two of them and you have NO idea what goes on between them behind closed doors. Not to mention it's none of your business. I mean, it's not like he's a chaste monk while she's blowing everyone. Sounds like they have serious problems that nobody but themselves can sort out. Second, you're in too deep to confess to your wife. If it happened ONCE, maybe, just maybe, you could explain that. But the frequency you are talking about...you might as well file the divorce papers now if you tell her.
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