Hi Tim. Just wanted to add my agreement that your "friend" is exhibiting some pretty unhealthy behaviour. It's really unfortunate when this happens with any friend, let alone one you've had the good fortune to explore fantasies with, but it's also distressingly common. And one thing's for sure: if he's being this obsessive, possessive and immature now, it's likely only going to get worse. He may not be genuinely dangerous but do you really want to find out? This kind of thing is bad enough in any friendship but when you're already in such unconventional territory, the potential for things to spiral out of control runs even higher.
As you can see from the numbers and sheer variety on this message board, there are plenty of other like-minded people around who'd be happy to join you and your lovely wife in experimenting sexually, so there may be more suitable candidates in your area as well. Wishing you both all the best.
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