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Originally Posted by LBnJB
I have been sharing my wife with other men for the past few years without being a cuckold. The humiliation, denial, etc. does nothing for me. I prefer to watch, and join in. She likes to be watched, and shared, and have two or more men dedicated to pleasing her. Sexual definitions are helpful in that they convey a general idea of sexual preference, etc. But they are often limiting. My wife and I are closer to the "Hotwife" definition, which sounds like what you are interested in. But we are not a typical "hot wife" couple because she does not play alone. She does "date" men, meaning she will meet them for lunch, cocktails, etc. But if I am not there, the date ends with a kiss and nothing more.
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I hear you. My specific tastes/proclivities/whatever are - I think - slightly different from yours, but we're definitely on the same page. Yay us!
I've done the sharing/swapping thing a handful of times and for the most part enjoyed it immensely but have found there's always potential for unfortunate "after effects" - resentments, recriminations, etc. - that one or all of us didn't anticipate. Much as I love spontaneity and hate overthinking, things can go very wrong if there isn't a certain amount of discussion ahead of time, especially when there are good friends involved.
This is one reason why I'm particularly fond of wife/girlfriend exhibitionism, as it's in the same territory and provides me with many of the same thrills but there's a lot less potential for things to go south. I have a pretty lengthy, detailed reminiscence I'm writing about some experiences in this particular area, which I'll be posting soon. So keep an eye out if you're interested.