There is a Dutch saying which goes like this: “The soup isn’t eaten as hot as it is served”. It means something like “Most things will calm down over time”, or ”Things will cool down as time progresses”. You get the meaning I suppose.
The reaction of my wife to the pictures I attached to the last post I posted on OCC follow this expression. The day after my wife was adamant she wouldn’t allow me to send any more risqué pictures of her to our friend she agreed to sending the first pictures below this post. It shows her wearing nothing except her bra and panties. The reason she allowed me to send it was probably my comment with it: I stated it was very warm indeed at our home town (so it was natural my wife wouldn’t be wearing a lot of clothes).
We are at this point indeed: both my wife and our friend know we are sending highly reaving pics of her, in various stages of undress, but I need to pretent every specific picture is about the dog/weather/whatever in order for her to allow me to send it. She still needs the plausible deniability factor I suppose…
After some time she allow me to send pics 2 and 3, both showing her panties but not anything else. The comments I used to get her approval were first her cocktail, and second her laughing at some joke he made.
My wife drank some more wine that evening, and after I promised to walk the dog she changed into her night gown. I used the opportunity to expose one breast to the camera, and before long our friend received the 4th and 5th pictures below this post. After my wife made a great fuss about not stripping for pictures anymore just the day before, she now allowed me to send pictures again with a single breast fully visible…. ;-)
Yesterday we went to a nude beach in our neachbourhood, and my wife removed her bikini top. She didn’t want to strip completely naked, and since I want her to expose her breasts at this point I was more then okay with that. Pics 6 to 8 were send to our friend, even though my wife didn’t approve them before I send ‘m. I knew she would probably not allow them, so I send them in our group chat without consulting her before. Her reaction, after she saw the pictures, was mute indeed. She didn’t object to me sending them, but instead focused on me not asking her consent beforehand.
So that’s the clue: she want’s to be in control about which pics get send to him. If I send topless pics of her revealing all of her breasts she is a little angry, but actually more disappointed I didn’t ask her permission beforehand. She knows by now our friend has seen her topless more then once and by intention, but I am afraid she will still not allow me to send topless pics to him again. She is still holding onto her one beast rule. But by sending the topless pics on the beach she would probably get used to being topless for him, and she would be less conservative next time.
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