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Originally Posted by solva193
Tim
Your wife has to be confident and happy in what you are both doing. If she is not. the whole thing could and probably will end. I suspect she may have panicked a bit after the past photo. Talk to her, recognising she is upset, and explain that although you do like sending the photos, you don't want her to be upset, so you will back off until (or if) she is happy to continue, but that she will control things. However (and make it a joke) you enjoy it so much she needs to be prepared for you to keep hinting, as she looks so great! In this way she will know that she is back in control, but the "joke" leaves you in a position to keep nudging. Keep the "Truth and Dare" safe. There is time later to push boundaries, and you have plenty of time to allow her to adjust in her own time. Ignore anyone who wants you to push her harder. Good luck
Art
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Agree 100% with Solva / Art. Like many things, most everyone needs some time to adjust / get use to doing new / different things, whether it is learning a new skill or pushing on boundaries, especially when those boundaries were set and firmly established over many years, decades in many cases. There is an expression of "back and fill" to describe this situation, where one has to step back and make sure all are on firm ground before any advancement can really be made. Otherwise the "poor foundation" may crumble and minds are closed to any new activities. Keeping it fun and relaxed for a while, not taking sexy / revealing pics all the time but add in more fun "regular" pics of her might help reduce the tensions. You may do this already - you seem to have a good sense of when to let up and what topics would be counterproductive. Everybody following this thread wishes you the best of luck! Especially when you post such great updates!
