Extra question - How many of those women you have been with are still in your life?
I'm lucky enough to have 5 people I have slept with still as part of my friend circle. 2 are very good friends from childhood who I slept with a few times as a 20-22yo when I was on a daft "shag anyone" phase, 2 are old Uni friends who are still very active albeit not close to where I live and one is my ex of 4 years who just started working at my place
My wife knows about all 5 and there was one amazing night out where I was sat at a table with 4 women (including my wife) all of whom I had been with and all of them knew about each of their experiences with me. That was a god night