The thing with the numbers game is it sometimes becomes just that with no reference to quality or enjoyment. I've only had about 12 but married quite young and have been getting good sex for 35 years, Wife even getting keener it seems. I do seem to remember my early years where I may not have had sex but a lot of enjoyable groping and fumbling.
For those of you feeling sad about low numbers, have a read of some of the stories in this article.
There are those worse off than you.
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-44143003