[tim81]

After the latest comments in this thread I descided to try and talk to my wife about how she really feels about being exposed to our friend and how she thinks about taking things a little further. I knew I had to be very carefull in order not to cross any bounderies in case she is not (yet) prepared to let him touch her or show him more then he has already seen, and I am glad I was carefull. As an example I didn’t ask her straight away if it would be okay for him to fondle her breasts, but I told her I wouldn’t mind him touching her. The difference seems suttle, but her saying ‘no’ to the first question would mean a firm ‘no’ indeed, while a negative reaction to the second phrasing would keep things more or less dangling in the air instead of shutting the door. I hope you understand what I mean: it’s a little hard to phrase things right in English.

After touching the subject a couple of times over the last week it’s clear to me she doesn’t want him to touch her straight away. She indeed likes the pictures we send (most of the time that is, and certainly not every night), and it definatly turns her on if we do it when she feels like it. She also knows I am trying to get her as naked as possible in his presence, but is not willing to do that.

I think she is torn between that fact she wants to remain a descent woman, and the fact she likes to be admired. Our friend touching her sensitive parts without proper cause is for now surely a ‘no go’. Playing twister with the three of us now would not be a good idea: if our friend would touch her breasts or bum she would probably shy away and it would be all over. I have to be carefull and move ahead slowly.

So I thought out a new idea. As you all know we have been playing a game on our PS4 over the last couple of months, called ‘that’s you’. It’s about answering questions about the other players present, and even though it’s quite tame in itself we have made it a little erotic lately by making naughty comments or drawing naughty pictures over selfies of my wife the game made her take. So I proposed to my wife we play a (tame) game of truth or dare with our friend in the near future. At first she refused, since she knows the dares can border outright sex and she has made it clear lately she doesn’t want that. So as a compromise I told her the two of us would come up with the questions and the dares, so she would be in total control as to how far things might go. As an example I told her a dare might involve pouring a drink for everyone, or tickling some else feet, sides or armpits. She seemed reluctant at first, but after revisiting the subject a couple of times she is getting used to the idea.

I think it will be hard to include some dares which include physical contact between my wife and our friend (like tickling), but I am fairly sure I will be able to convince her to play a game with the three of us. As long as she is in control, and can descide herself which questions and dares we include. It will be a very slow progress, but as a matter of fact playing such a game will actually be the first time our friend has a legitimate reason to touch her, even if it will not include her sensitive parts. That way both her and he can get used to the idea of physical contact, and who knows how far we can take it the next couple of times we play the game?

I texted our friend about this idea, and he was very, very much into it. The thought of him tickling my wife under her armpits or in her side seemed to turn him on (a lot), so I am sure he is willing to go along. His shyness will not be factor either, since it will be the dares who order him to touch her and he will have a valid excuse. He texted me back he will try to come up with good dares too over the next couple of weeks, and I am curious as to his ideas (even though these will probably not make it into the game after my wife looks over the proposals).

In about 12 days my wife and I will be leaving on holiday for a week, and we agreed we will be playing truth or dare with our friend after that. So that’s still a couple of weeks away, and we will be thinking up questions and dares in the meantime. I am sure she will be hesitant to include any dares involving a chance of him touching her, but I have high hopes a least the tickling tasks will be included. To be continued!