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Mr. Grits ere,


We have a friend,,,40 yrs old......,, not a select friend , who was in the Gulf war... he came back facial disfigured and a lot of body scars & some burns...… not doing well at all, and generally depressed about it all.... his wife low-life divorced him while he was on deployment before he got hit..... so he came home to no one except friends & family... needless to say, its difficult for him to socialize and meet, and see other couples, or meet new women... very sad.


My wife asked me if she could "mercy " fuck him, because the last time we say him he was really down & depressed..... Soooooo I suggested, she could, BUT, it would have to appear as if I don't know and shes cheating on me..


WHY??.. because , first of all, he doesn't know about our swing life... and #2- hes not stupid and would figure I let her do it for "mercy" reasons.. and too another man that could hurt him mentally....we've known him for 20 yrs...….--- it would be better if he just thought she was cheating on me, BUT , still letting him know that shes just doing it to help him... sort of a "mercy" fuck, but toned down somewhat by her... just so he doesn't get the idea she loves him... a fine balance!!!???!!


So, today, they met at a hotel in town, and they had a undercover cheat.... they spent the whole afternoon together..... I don't want to know the details because of the situation, but just want to make sure he doesn't get lovey dovey too much where it will cause a problem..... shes going to try to see him once a month if all goes well.... its not just sex, its someone to talk to and be intimate.. a friend...….. hookers can't do that in their 1 hr sessions. .. and he needs someone of the opposite sex to talk too..


So that's what we did for a friend.... he assumes I know nothing about it, and he has to use a condom the whole time. w/ any penetration... (my wifes rules).. Our sex life is very exciting , so we're giving back because of how lucky we are...


Opinions ??