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Originally Posted by solva193
“Contrary to what my wife said earlier about not wearing one of her new see through panties in the presence of our friend, she did in fact agree to do just that” i would be interested to know whether you broached the subject of wearing her new panties in front of your friend, and if so how hard you had to push, or whether it was your wife’s idea. Despite what you say about her white panties, she undoubtedly looks far sexier in the see through ones, and I wonder if she is recognising that herself, and perhaps enjoying the teasing more than she will admit.
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I am sure my wife knows full well how sexy she looks in those panties. As a matter of fact, we even discussed the fact her pubic hairs are very visible if she wears them, so there is no doubt she knows what she is doing and showing by wearing them in front of our friend in a very short miniskirt. I think she actually liked to wear them last Saturday, since she just bought ‘m and secretly liked to show them off.
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Originally Posted by wetwon
Tim that you for the great stories and pictures of your lovely wife. My wife and I have been swingers for many years now. I was the one that introduced her to swinging. It started out much like your situation, with a close friend that we both felt comfortable with. At first it though I just want to show her off but as I our little game progressed I realized that my ultimate fantasy was to watch him fuck her. When if finally happened I was a little uncomfortable- nervous, jealous but very turned on. It became a regular weekly date until he met someone and is now married. I asked her to read your thread and give me her thoughts. There is a saying in the swinger world that the man shows the woman the door, but the woman is the one who pulls the man through it. Basically what it means it that many married women fantasize about fucking other men but they don't share with the man they love because they do not want to ruin that relationship for fun fucking. Here are her comments from a woman's perspective
The wife is very turned on by their "game" I suspect she is fantasizing about the friend. She is not doing this to please the husband. Women always control the "game" We just want the men to think it is their idea and we do it to please them. I suspect she has already decided she would fuck the friend but only if she is sure her husband is comfortable with it. The friend needs to let her know he is enjoying the show and the pictures and that he wants to see more. He should flirt with her, stroke her thigh, touch her arm, ask if he can untie her top, ask her to remove her panties. However the husband should let her know the friend has already asked him for permission and that husband said he okay with it, but it is up to her how far she goes.
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Thank you for your post and your advice. Very interesting to hear how a woman with experience looks at the situation! My wife and our friend have dated years ago (before she met me), but after a couple of dates she descided she did not want a relationship with him, even though he was more then willing. So I am not 100% sure my wife would actually like to fuck him, since she has had the chance and passed it over.
It is very clear however she is enjoying the shows and pictures. She is more then willing to pose for pictures if I ask her permission to send some, and if our friend visits she will usually happily wear a very short skirt, a loose bikinitop, or her bathrobe with nothing except her panties below it. What puzzles me is why she is so reluctant to go any further. Every two steps forward is followed by one and a half step back. Does your wife have any idea why my wife is on the one hand very excited to be exposed to him, but on the other hand is so reluctant to move even an inch further? Logic would dictate that if she likes it, she would be more then willing to go a little further each time, right? Or is that man’s logic?
Very good idea for our friend to become more involved, and giving him the chance to touch her. I have givin him multiple chances to do so in the past, but he seems too shy to take advantage of a situation if it presents itself. As an exemple, after celebrating New Years Eve I told him (without my wife knowing) he should thank my wife for the nice evening he had. He should use the opportunity to give her a little thank-you-kiss, and brush with his arm/hand over her breasts which were only covered by her bathrobe. So he knew he had my permission and he had the opportunity, but he still didn’t take advantage of it. Afterwards I asked him why he hadn’t brushed his arm against her breasts, and he told me he wanted to but was too shy when the moment came. So him undoing the straps of her bikini or asking her in her face to open her legs and show her panties is definatly a bridge too far for now. That’s why I came up with the idea of playing twister together, but for that to be really erotic my wife needs to be a little more exposed in his presence so our friend will have no choice but to touch her private parts.