Tim that you for the great stories and pictures of your lovely wife. My wife and I have been swingers for many years now. I was the one that introduced her to swinging. It started out much like your situation, with a close friend that we both felt comfortable with. At first it though I just want to show her off but as I our little game progressed I realized that my ultimate fantasy was to watch him fuck her. When if finally happened I was a little uncomfortable- nervous, jealous but very turned on. It became a regular weekly date until he met someone and is now married. I asked her to read your thread and give me her thoughts. There is a saying in the swinger world that the man shows the woman the door, but the woman is the one who pulls the man through it. Basically what it means it that many married women fantasize about fucking other men but they don't share with the man they love because they do not want to ruin that relationship for fun fucking. Here are her comments from a woman's perspective
The wife is very turned on by their "game" I suspect she is fantasizing about the friend. She is not doing this to please the husband. Women always control the "game" We just want the men to think it is their idea and we do it to please them. I suspect she has already decided she would fuck the friend but only if she is sure her husband is comfortable with it. The friend needs to let her know he is enjoying the show and the pictures and that he wants to see more. He should flirt with her, stroke her thigh, touch her arm, ask if he can untie her top, ask her to remove her panties. However the husband should let her know the friend has already asked him for permission and that husband said he okay with it, but it is up to her how far she goes.
You have a great woman. Life is short. Have fun and enjoy.
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