My experience
I can only tell you how I got there. It turns my wife on to pose for photos for me so that was not a hurdle I had to cross. It sounds like you have crossed that hurdle yourself so I think you're 1/3 the way there.
We had already had a discussion about the fact that men are visual creatures (We love to look!) so the next step I took was to tell her that I wanted to keep some of the pics I took of her. She said "OK" once I convinced her that they were only for me and that it turned me on to look at them and I wanted to look at her sexy pics any time and anywhere. She reasoned that she'd rather me be looking at her photos rather than someone else's. I made sure that many of the photos I kept were ones where she could not be identified and that was key to my final step.
I told her about finding OCC. I told her truthfully that I liked to read the sexy, true stories that some guys post. I told her that I was going to write a few and see if there was any interest. I also mentioned the fact that some guys occasionally post photos of their wives/girlfriends to go along with the stories. I left it at that. I told her later that my stories were pretty well received and asked her if I could spice up the next one with a photo of her if I chose one that was unidentifiable. She said I could, as long as her face and tattoos couldn't be seen. Over the years since, she has become less and less concerned about what photos I post.
Good luck!
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