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Originally Posted by Stranger75
It would be helpful to understand how to move this forward and what is the next step? Should I ask her again soon or leave it a while? It’s about her feeling comfortable and not that she’s being pressured in any sense – ultimately I’d like her to enjoy the experience of showing off her body as much I do, so when the time is right she’s ok for me to share some of her here or elsewhere.
Any thoughts/advice appreciated.
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A lot of the guys here have provided great advice. Ultimately, work and patience are the key. Work = compliments, compliments and more compliments. Patience = knowing when to back off if she feels pressured and waiting for the right opportunity to pull out the phone/camera.
I can tell you what worked for me. My fiancée and I went to St Martin on vacation, where she spent a good amount of time being topless and naked on the beach. She was really feeling good about herself, our sex was great and she was loving our time there together. I seized that opportunity to take a lot of pics; and alcohol also aiding, she agreed to have a bunch of nudes taken. She does not regret them; quite the contrary, they remind her of how much fun she'd had. She actually also took a bunch of naked, hard on included, pics of me as well; which is fair.
Well she also told me that she'd rain down her wrath upon me if I ever shared them. So that's a different issue, much more delicate. Sure you can do it secretly (I won't); but to do it the "right way" you'd need her explicit consent. And that's is going to take a lot more "effective persuasion."