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Originally Posted by nudony
When my fiancée and I went to Club O, she wanted to keep her "hair down there" because she figured it would look "better." I just went with it; I was just happy she wanted to try nudism.
It turned out many of the women there were bald. When we got back to our room I asked her how it "felt" being the only woman there with pubes. She shrugged her shoulders and I offered her a more "fashionable makeover", using her razor. She agreed to it under the stipulation that I leave a patch. Of course I faked a "razor malfunction" and lopped off a piece of her patch. So I told her I'd "fix it" and of course shaved off her patch.
She was fine being shaven. She blended right in.
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We had a similar situation when we went to Club Orient in 2002. Mrs BrunettesRule went down with a full, dark bush and we got lots of pictures of her out on the beach, alone or with me, with a full bush -- which I loved. About halfway through the trip, she trimmed it into a small landing strip - which also looked great. For me, the best of both worlds.
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Has anyone got any advice to help her with the experience, I know she's nervous and doesn't quite know what to expect. Is there anything I can do to make it easier? Anyone got some past experiences to share about taking someone along for the first time? I haven't been for a long time but I use to go a lot, although I've never been to one in France before.
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For us (particularly, her) the best approach was to jump right in. Very quickly, she will notice how she will not be the center of attention and she will quickly relax. We've been doing this annually for 20 years (and had visited a couple nude resorts before that). I think the one exception was when we finally tried out Baker Beach. While there is a stretch that is clothing-optional, while WE were there, nobody else was actually naked. We checked with an elderly guy who was wearing a white thong to make sure we were in the right area, and he said yes. We got undressed and took pictures, but there were people all around us. We were nervous, but nobody bothered us. I wasn't even aware of how many people were paying attention until I looked at the photos later. Below is an example: