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Originally Posted by nudony
It's really all about building up their confidence. If you make them feel good about something, they're more willing to step out of their comfort zone and explore.
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So true. And not just confidence in themselves, but sufficiently confident that "you" [BF, husband, the instigator in chief] willl not then hold anything against them for actually doing something new once the thrill of the moment has passed. Not just in the light of day but, depending on the relationship, also further down the road. Both have to be in place or many will not "risk" stepping out of their comfort zone. There has to be some level of trust that whatever will not negatively affect the relationship.