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Originally Posted by Funhscupl
Would enjoy hearing and seeing more about it.
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Like what? I'm not really big on fantasy stories many seem to post on the lifestyle, because for us it is a day to day lifestyle. The jist is, I wear a chastity cage 24/7 am not allowed to play or even watch nude women when we go to clubs. I am not with her when she plays with others, she plays solo. I am allowed to go on dates and go out if he's comfortable with it (some guys don't want me there, some like the thrill of the build up) but once they go to play, I get lost. Because of that we don't do the whole creampie clean-up or fluffing type stuff. I'm not a typical cuckold "sissy" like so many stories portray. In fact, other than this aspect of our lives, I have an extremely dominate personality.
We are each other's first marriage and hit 30 years this year. We used to swing, but she can be jealous and I never am so we just kind of evolved into what works for US.
She found over the years that when I was in the room she would hold back on fear of hurting my feelings. So because of that, she decided, and it works for me that she would play alone so that she could do whatever she wants and enjoy it with no restrictions. I can only speak up if I see a problem with the guy safety wise. I'm not allowed to bash a guy because him and I don't match personalities or the like.
We have done MANY of the things you read about, like her spending the night, her having regular fulltime boyfriends (and couples), calling on the phone during playtime and me getting to listen and the like. I have ZERO issues answering questions for those interested, but my "stories" are true and tend to be more clinical than getting others off.
This lifestyle is definitely not for everyone, but after 30 years married, and more in love today than on our wedding day, it works FOR US.