As a business contact, is there ever an opportunity for a few adult beverages with her in a small group of fellow employees [yours or hers] or even better a celebratory dinner with accompanying drinks and wine, toasts, and general excess? If any of these present themselves, you could quietly mention to her while no one else can overhear, that you happened to see some very fun and exciting photos of someone who looked like her, taken in Vegas. Depending how things go, could further also mention about some interesting photos at a "party" and see how she reacts. She may shut down any further discussion, but if you are very complimentary about the photos and how "whomever" in the photos appeared to be having a lot of fun and really enjoying herself, she just might respond favorably.
But, like was mentioned above, in this environment there is a risk that she could perceive your inquiries as not so veiled pressure or possibly something less positive than just a sharing of your appreciation for the photos...
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