Originally Posted by karlhein
This may be a very biased audience, but I don't know anyone else to ask who might be as honest as the group here appears to be. It's not life shatteringly important, but it's something I've thought about ever since I started having sex with ladies, as opposed to just 'five fingered Mary' when I was young.
If you are in a relationship, where you are getting honest to goodness sex from a real woman; how often do you still 'play with yourself'. Is it related to how often you are cumming with her? I guess you could ask the same question of gay guys, but I think (based on long observation) that most of the people on this board are more likely to be straight.
I'm pretty old now, and have been in 4 serious long term relationships, and a certain number of shorter term adventures. And, even when the sex was very good (which is was in 2 of the 4), I still found myself 'taking care of business' on my own, with nearly daily frequency. Am I abnormal?
Back in the old days, it was skin mags, then videos you could get in the back of the video store. For the last 25 years or so, it's been the internet.....I was an early Redclouds fan, and still fully appreciate the concept of Waiting for Igor......and I've been on this site for some years, as it's comparatively low cost and provides forums like this, all sorts of entertaining pictures and even some video clips.
Now my gf is out of town, so I only see her on the weekend, so most evenings, I'm pulling the pud (it certainly beats most of what is on TV these days).
I'd estimate that until I turned 60, my average rate of ejaculations was more than 1 per day (say 10 per week), and didn't seem decrease if I was doing it with a nice lady a few times per week. And, I learned a long time ago the joy of 'edgeing', so my time of playing was a lot longer than just the time it took to cum.
What is the experience on the board? If you are with a hot lady frequently, do you stop "self servicing"? Or does your time with a nice lady just add to your personal pleasure?
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