A missed opportunity
Now days, I can give a decent massage, for not being trained. I am living with my first wife again, and she has a bad back from our younger days. I help her alot.
Where I wish I had a concept of massaging was when I was 16 and my mother had bad back issues. The doctor had my father using a numbing spray on her lower back, along with some meds. When my father had to be out of town on business, I got the honors. The first couple of times I was very surprised when my mother striped to her panties and laid down on her front. I did the spraying as she directed and had to pull her panties down some to get to all of the areas that needed help. After that she was naked when we did this, and for a 16 year old guy, this was quite an experience. Years later, when I realized the benefits of massages, I kick myself for not trying to give my mother even more benefit from her treatments. I realize that she might not have wanted my hands on her, but knowing what I have learned about her, over the years, I don't think that there would have been any problem at all. Plus, she always treated me like an adult.
To me, giving massages can be a real ice breaker...
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