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Originally Posted by Omega88
Breaking through that barrier can takes years of gentle encouragement to overcome years of "conditioning." Have been down that road and it is slow going. Is a year round effort of subtle compliments and suggesting more risque clothing when shopping with the wife, and buying some items you know she would look great in and ask her to wear them for special occassions, both at home and going out. Baby steps seems to be the best way...
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I agree....it took me 10 years to finally get my wife to let her hair down and forget about what society tells her she should be and should wear.
Once she did....WOW....hang on tight, what a ride. We are going on a cruise in a couple weeks and we intend on filling up the cards in our camera with mostly pics of her and a few videos of us going at it. When we get back I'll definitely post a few new pics here for everyone to enjoy. But, at any rate, gentle persuasion and confidence reinforcement is definitely the best way to get her where you and she(even though she doesn't know it) want her to be. Good luck and have patience.