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Originally Posted by rickandsuzy
I would be thrilled if my wife said I want a mfm. I wouldn't even need to be one of the men involved but that ain't gonna happen. She's not attractive and doesn't catch anyone's eye when she's out or when we go out. Even when we go out I make sure it looks like she's by herself and not one guy will even smile at her.
So please share any details about your experiences
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Dude, seriously... *smh*
I've never seen someone degrade their woman on a forum like this to other people the way you're doing. Make no mistake, I know how you feel because that's precisely the way I felt about my ex-wife before I divorced her. The difference is, I didn't lead my ex on thinking things were ok when in fact they clearly were anything but. When it became obvious to me that I needed a divorce because our marriage was loveless, sexless and even LIKEless, I shared that revelation with her. Once she accepted it as truth too, things calmed down a bit between us until we could make our inevitable separation a reality.
For your wife's sake, I hope you do her a favor & come to that point yourself soon. It's unfortunate she's only ever had sex with you; the way you talk about her on here to complete strangers, she really deserves better. God only knows how you talk about her to people in real life.
So you know, I'm not trying to be a dick. You're entitled to your feelings & I would never disabuse anyone of their right to feel however they do. I guess I'm saying it would be nice if you weren't trying to be a dick either, because it really seems like you are.
Now since you really seem to be interested in other people's opinions of your wife & I am kinda jumping in your shit, I'll indulge you. I owe you that much. She's not a 10/10 of course, but who the fuck ever is, really? And speaking solely for myself, I'm not interested in 10/10 women, so there ya go.
As for the scenarios you paint, for me, I would absolutely go up & talk to her on the beach in that Canadian bathing suit she has, whether you were there or not. It's a killer bathing suit, it looks really good on her, and it's a conversation piece. Provided I have an "in" (ie: something to genuinely talk about), I will go up & talk to anyone about anything, no problems. And yes, I would hope in that situation that I had some sunglasses so I could check her out up-close without having to worry about being busted.
Whether I would take it any further would depend on her reactions to me & where the conversation was going, but in a nutshell, yes I would approach her, and yes I think she looks very sexy.
Shame you don't feel the same way. Do both of yourselves a favor & get divorced. Take it from someone who's been there.