Hello Maren1
Just caught this thread, and I know exactly what you mean. To reverse it as the onlooker, while if a woman flashed her tits at me in public it's very nice, to me it's much more of a turn on if the exposure is accidental, if I'm seeing something I shouldn't, and that the woman would blush and be horrified if she finds out she is exposing some flesh.
Walking around with your top deliberately undone with nothing on underneath is "blatant" exhibitionism, and potentially against the law, whereas if your top was to "accidentally" open or fall down then you're the "victim" and any men who notice will be seeing something they think they shouldn't...
I guess the knack is to be subtle so that to the onlooker it looks accidental, e.g. undressing in a hotel room with a slight crack in the curtains, enough for onlookers to see you, but small enough to look like an accident. Or covering yourself with a towel when removing a wet swimming costume, but accidentally letting it slip so your breasts or bottom are momentarily exposed on a public beach...
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