[DRDavenport]

Originally Posted by smit10

I knew "J" since she was a child, around 6 years younger than I and living in the same congregation as me. She was a cute, young teen when I moved away, and I found out much later she'd had a crush on me. I moved back to the area many years later, and became pretty good friends with J and her hubby and three kids. I used to counsel with them and really loved the family. At the same time, I really loved her figure and would sometimes fantisize about her.

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My guess is that she keeps her hot wife world and conventional world completely separate. Your making a move on her would threaten that separation and would lead her to completely remove her on-line presence.

DR