Mrs. Grits has said in the past that a big part of here enjoyment of the Special Friend and Swinger occasions is the pleasure and satisfaction she is giving to her husband and friends as much or more than her own personal pleasure.
If this sort of enjoyment is available frequently and at will it would seem that there is not much, "special", anymore so perhaps an occasional exception of Mrs. offering something Mr. likes but can't get himself or regularly from others would indeed be a very welcome gift.
Anyone, including Mr. Grits, can easily anytime go buy himself a new drill or other toy. Indeed most men know what they want and put out a shopping list as the wrong drill just isn't going to work right.
What I truly appreciate is something unique, surprising and pleasurable from a loved one that I can't do for myself. If it's from my wife, sexual and pleasurable for her in knowing I will love it, that's just more frosting on the cake.
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