[jacksonhole]

I heartily agree with Vortex, next time you are together with your friend play a game. You can make any game into a “fun” game very easily. If your wife is semi turned on by the exposure but wants to keep her deniability, then having to do something as part of a game works fantastic. You can either be obvious, like suggest playing strip poker, or you can be less obvious about how you use a game to create opportunities. From your stories it sounds like less obvious is the way to go with your wife.

The best way we have found to use a game to create exposure without being obvious is to just play any game you want, but declare up front that when someone wins three hands (or builds a hotel, or whatever) they get to make a rule that applies to everyone for the rest of the night.

Start with innocent rules like, “the loser of each hand has to refill everyone’s drinks” or something innocuous like that. This establishes the fact that the rules actually matter, and that they apply to everyone, so it isn’t just an excuse to get your wife naked. Then after a few rules have been established, you can try one that is a little more risqué like “the loser has to moon the room”. Again, I suggest that they not be solely targeted at your wife, and that they be rules that everyone has to follow. You can also have rules that encourage drinking, but it sounds like that may not be a fit for your wife.

If it goes right (it has for me many many times) after a few hours you may have some fun rules that allow your wife to feel like she is just playing along with the game and gives her an excuse for whatever happens.

Examples of rules that we have ended up with after a few hours playing games include:

- loser has to flash something normally hidden by a bathing suit
- every time an Ace is played the player with the Ace has to show something
- if someone loses two hands in a row, they have to flash

Depending on the mood and the people you are playing with these rules can become almost anything including grabbing a boob or a bottom, and even more. The most interesting thing will be seeing what rules your wife makes when it’s her turn to make a rule. I have seen very shy conservative women make some pretty racy rules after a few hours. And of course be prepared to hear the phrase, “I can’t believe I am doing this!” That is part of the deniability, it’s not her choice to do whatever the rule is, she’s just being a good sport and playing along with the game.

Good luck, and keep us posted.