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Originally Posted by Dookieman

You may have explained earlier already but how does she feel about other "show-off" friendly outfits? Some of the best stuff (at least they are favorites of mine):

• -translucent dress or nightgown (though a nightgown/nightie would appear a bit too "intentional" for some people's taste...it's also limited in that they can only really get away with wearing that at home; a "regular" dress that just happens to be see-thru looks more like an "accident")
• -romper-style shorts---very, very loose and short that always show off a surprising amount butt-cheeks (or even some bush if no panties underneath)...this is very much in style in recent years. Of course there's also various flared, loose-fit gym-shorts that achieve the same visual.(*I'm sure the view is intentional 99% of the time....there's no way a woman goes walks around in something like that completely unaware that she's putting herself on display for any guy that wants to look at something nice.)
• -old pleated-style tennis skirts that easily flip up in the wind.
• -"muscle shirts" (aka "tank-tops") with the large armholes....such EASY side-boob views when women wear them with nothing else underneath(*my old roommate's girlfriend would wear one of his at times, and the view was incredible...I could see everything from the side!)

Wearing anything else but her white panties down below is not an option I am afraid. My wife wore lingerie (sexy lace panties) in the past, but really doesn't like it. She thinks it's not comfortable, and ofcourse I respect her wishes since I would not want her to be uncomfortable while exposing herself.

A tank top, or a tennis style skirt I would very much like he to wear, expecially in the presence of our friend or someone else. For now I am afraid that will be too Obvious: wearing a decent dress of blouse which can be opened slowly is about as far as she will take it for now. The fact she agreed to wear the bathrobe in his presence actually surprised me.

Originally Posted by BobBiga

You may have reached a point where he doesn't want to just "look" anymore. You maybe at a crossroads where you have to decide to either let him touch her or lose the thrill of you showing her. Good luck!

Have been thinking about that recently. For now my wife has reacted very, very resolute if I ask her how she would feel if someone else touched her breasts, not wanting to have anything to do with that. But on the other hand, a couple of days ago I actually did fantasize about how sexy it would be to see someone touch her breasts...

Perhaps this is something to explore in the (distant) future....

Originally Posted by cufan86

I would take a step back and slow down. You don’t want to make him uncomfortable.
But at the end of the day, this should be fun for all three of you.

Yesterday and today he acted completely normal, he even send us a text asking if it is okay if he visits next Friday. I suppose the reason he reacted as brief and somewhat rude as he did last Sunday was because he had some kind of problem, perhaps an argument with one of his brothers or just in a bad mood because the weekend was over. I did text him in private today (outside the whatsappgroup we share with my wife) and he assured me he would definitely very much like the shows to continue.

So what I wrote earlier, about my concerns as to us being able to continue the shows and sending the pictures, was actually a storm in a glass of water... I suppose I find this so arousing and exciting even a small hickup

Originally Posted by clairwill

what a great idea...

why don't you try with a bottle of harder liquor? doesn't she like whiskey or tequila or gin...

4 glasses of this should do the trick

That could be an option Clairwill, were it not for the fact I would like my wife to be conscious during our shows . The shows and exposing her body should be something we all like and feel comfortable with, not resemble anything approaching me taking advantage of my wife .