I did...every time.
I have been a swinger for 33 years. I just had my 49th b-day. My first threesome when I was 16. and I was hooked to the lifestyle. I was always aware of it, being a snoopy kid with a father who had a modest selection of Hustler and Penthouse mags to learn from. During the 70's and 80's every magazine had articles about what women want from a sexual partner and how to please them.
I have been married 3 times, and between marriages had long term relationships (3 to 8 years each) where we lived together. I typically always preferred women older than me, but there is a middle age mark where you begin to look for younger. I have dated white, Latina, African-American, and Korean. Only the Korea was educated in the various sexual arts. She explained that it was common in her family for the women to teach the younger generations, mostly via advice and some exercises. However, I had to teach every other woman, despite the number of past lovers or age.
From being a life long swinger I just want to add this:
Men need to be taught how to have sex. Not from watching porno. Most men that I have seen are extremely limited. I refer to them as boys in men's bodies. It is unfortunate that boys grow up jacking off to porno then think that they know how to be a good lover. But their poor women suffer from never having orgasms. That is simply a sad state for all man kind.
Sex Ed should teach more than simply how to put a condom on a banana.
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