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Originally Posted by BobBiga
I think it's going very well and that he is being very respectful of her wishes. I just wonder if she wishes for more how he will react?
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Well, thats actually an interesting question. I don't think my wife is interested in our friend like that, that's actually why she is willing to show herself to him. About ten years ago, before my wife and I became a couple, he actually tried to hit on her. They were both single at that time, but she made it quite clear to him he didn't stand a chance. So I'm quite sure she is not interested in him.
If she was that would complicate things a little I think...
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Originally Posted by DoubleG
I would think it would be the other way around... she'd be willing to show more in person because, well it would be just a memory then, versus giving him photos which he'll have forever.
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That's what I thought too. But apparently it doesn't work for her like that. Perhaps it has something to do with her being in control: because I have to approve every picture before I send them to our friend my wife is very much in control of exactly what he sees. Wearing revealing dresses if he is around removes a little of that control: even though she can descide how many buttons to open, how much he sees depends on her position and the angle on which he looks. She can't control that.