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Originally Posted by dawggonetired
Having an argument with my wife would like some feedback. My wife likes to drink and was a sl*t prior to our marriage, I could be naïve. She likes to go out after work with co workers and tip a few. Problem is there usually guys 30 years of age and single. She thinks they have no interest in her, I think any guy at the end of a night of drinking will fuck or take a blowjob from any chick still breathing in the bar. I have several questions for the guys.
First question would you hit almost anything at the end of a night of drinking? Would it matter if she was married or had a significant other? Does her being a co worker enter in the decision?
The second issue and question is she thinks if a girls significant other is a convict, cop, or biker guys shy away from them. If your going to hit some chick during a one night stand and you find out she's going out with a biker, a cop, or a convict would this top you? would you even think twice about it?
Looking for honest feedback and any all thoughts
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Your post is asking for two different things, really. Because much of how other men relate to her will be a function of how she relates to the men, especially if they already know her. To answer your initial concern, I trust men completely around my wife...to hit on her and bed her if they can. That is because even when she was newly engaged men hit on her a lot. Some of that is because she's easy, and I think guys can sense that.
First question, I personally would not "hit almost anything at the end of a night of drinking". Not my style, but a lot of guys would. My experience is that whether a woman has a husband or a significant other is not a factor for most guys if they think they have a solid chance. As mentioned, sure didn't bother them with my newly engaged wife. Being a co-worker does enter the decision for me and makes it a no-go. I imagine it's 50/50 for most guys at large...meaning for about half it makes a difference and half it doesn't.
Second question, yes, that could stop me. Now, I admit that I come from a rougher background than some and where these kinds of threats are a very real thing. I went to high school with a guy who was shot by a jealous husband, for example. So it would stop me. I imagine it's a factor for a lot of guys. But there will always be that small minority who wouldn't care.
In fact, there's a small minority who don't care anything about any of this. If they can get laid, they will. I've known a few over the years.