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Originally Posted by rickandsuzy
Where we go out to a club and or lounge and no guys hit on her. No rings are on and we walk in separately. One guy smiled at her but wouldn't follow up any further. Or when we go nothing happens.
I'm losing or have lost interest in her.
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First of all, your wife is quite attractive. I'm a kind of young guy used to see beautiful young women and believe when I tell you that I would look at your wife.
But there is one thing to take into account: sexiness and causing a sexual attraction has to do with a lot of things apart from beauty. Through my life, I've seen how some pretty girls don't attract as many guys as the ugly ones. I wondered for a long time about this until I noticed something...
If your wife has a serious attitude; or if because of her shyness, she doesn't let herself explode her sexiness; other men won't look at her. Why? Because we look for certain clues to know if we have a chance with a girl. If she looks like she is not looking to meet new people or she looks like is hard to get or talk to; a lot of guys are going to pass.
My girlfriend is very good looking by any standards, and yet, she doesn't get hit as much as some of my female uglier friends. The reason is: she is very shy, so she doesn't talk to anyone. People interpret this as a signal of feeling superior or being too cocky; when in reality, she is quite the opposite. However, when guys get to know her, a lot of times, they end up falling in love with her.
What I want to say is that every women provokes a different reaction to men. Some look more approachable than others, sl*ttier, etc; and that changes the way men look at them. Try to exploit that. Don't go to night clubs trying to find someone to like your wife, that won't happen; but rather go somewhere else where her personality attracts more.
It's just my advice. Don't feel down because of a... misunderstanding.