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That I would really like, a see trough bikini or a wardrobe malfunction in the pool, showing her bare breast for just a few seconds. Unfortunatly it'n not me who descides. As stated above my wife still doesn't want him to see too much of her, so nipples are off limits. If I would stage a wardrobe malfunction without her consent I don't think she would appreciate it, and the evening would be ruined. BTW our friend send us a text yesterday he has to work Saturday afternoon, so he is only coming over to have diner and drink a beer.

Originally Posted by nectcouple

I would suggest that the next time he comes over and the three of you are just hanging out after dinner, yoir wife should go change into her PJ's or even better, a nightgown. (No bra, of course!)
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Sleepwear is automatically suggestive, but she can further the teasing with buttons undone on top and even "accidental" upskirts if she's wearing a nightgown. The sleepwear can be as innocent or as naughty as you deem appropriate, but putting it on to lounge around the house, even with a friend over, would not be out of place would it?
NE

Thanks you for your suggestion, my wife in our living room wearing only her pyama's or even a nightgown would be extremely sexy. And you are right sleepwear would be automatically suggestive. After reading your suggestion yesterday I asked my wife how she would feel about changing into nightwear late in the evening (after ten or so), since she doesn't know I'm posting on this forum I had to pretend it was my idea. Unfortunatly she did not want that, and was quit clear about that. She told me her pyama's and expecially a nightgown, even a descent one, was for my eye's only and she would never wear those with our friend present. She made it very clear this was were she draw the line, so I don't think this is going to happen any time soon...

Originally Posted by DippsyDudel

I was thinking along these same lines. You could have have her wear a bathrobe, with just panties under. That way she could slowly loosen her belt to her comfort level, and show as much as she wants too.

This idea I proposed to my wife too, directly after she said she did not want to wear any sleeping wear in front of our friend. I also reminded her of the fact we had already send our friend some pictures of her wearing nothing more besides her panties and a bathrobe, with the bathrobe opened a little. I believe I have posted that specific picture in this thread before (and on this forum I even posted more revealing pics of her in a bathrobe, but we never send those). I have included the pic we send to him below this post.

Somehow my wife thinks it's less revealing to wear a bathrobe with almost nothing beneath it then wearing a pyama's or a nightgown. I don't know why, but perhaps it has something to do with where one would normally wear those types of clothes. Sleeping gear of all sorts is only worn in bed, while a bathrobe could also be worn at a swimming pool or spa. So it's less suggestive in her opinion.

My wife didn't agree to changing into a bathrobe any time soon, but she did promise me to think about it. Our friend normally has to leave no later then 23:15, or else he will mis the last train. In the past it has happened before we invited him to sleep over if he missed the last train, but lately (after we started showing my wife) that's quit rare. A quarter past eleven is a little early to start making preperations to go to bed, and she does need an excuse of some sort on order to change into the bathrobe. Otherwise it would be too Obvious.

I do have hopes that this might happen: her wearing a bathrobe in his presence. We invited our friend to celebrate new years eve with us this year, and since the last train leaves at a quarter past eleven he will surely mis it and he will have to stay over. I asked my wife if she would be willing to change into her bathrobe half an hour or so before going to bed that evening, and she said she would think about it...

Originally Posted by DippsyDudel

Another step forward may be to have her wearing more revealing panties, something sheer and/or lacy.

My wife actually only owns regular white panties, with very few black ones. I have bought her lingerie in the past, including very sexy panties, but I know she will never wear them with our friend present. Unfortunatly...

Tonight I will try to post some pictures of my wife trying out the new dresses we ordered. She did that last night, but I still have to crop the images to hide my wife's face and I don't have the time to do that now. Thank you all for your suggestions!