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To answer the OP, it was exciting. We had talked about it in bed many times, she had had a sensual massage almost to orgasm, had given a guy a HJ, but no real sex, we didn't know if would actually ever happen. Then one night she was on a work related trip and I got a call, she was choosing her word carefully but finally asked, "there is a guy I met on the elevator, he is flirting with me, I have to go to a dinner, but he gave me his room number and said to call him when I get back if I'm interested. How serious are you about having your fantasy come true?"

I asked her a few questions about, she said he was tall and about 10 years younger, and he said if she came to his room he had a 9" surprise for her. I said I hoped that wasn't a butcher knife, but to be discrete, insist on a condom, and to have fun, call me.

She had a few close calls before, so I went to bed thinking this would likely never happen, But she called me in the morning, I asked her if she chickened out, she said "no, it was great, but I don't want to tell you anymore until we are in bed." She wasn't due home until the next afternoon.

She called me when she was on the way home from the airport, I left work to be there when she arrived, we had the hottest "reclaiming" sex imaginable. No regrets, no jealosy, she enjoyed it, I've had hundreds of orgasm while she retold and teased me about it.