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Originally Posted by artfuldogger
I disagree, GRITS.
In the throws of passion, depending on the scenario being played out, roleplay, submissive, subservient, dominant, sexual boundries, BDSM, S&M, edging, any sexual act that is pushing the normal play to another level, then there should be a word not commonly used between the agreeing parties involved.
It just makes a clear indication that the line has been drawn and to step back.
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I agree that - indeed depending on the intensity of the sexual act - a safe word is a very useful tool.
My fiancée has a masochistic side and occasionally enjoys being dominated - to the degree of abuse. It makes her cum harder for some reason. I go along with it for her pleasure. It has involved me throwing her on the floor or over the couch, pulling her pants off or dress up; and pounding while choking her while she feigns resistance. If she gets really excited she'll insult me or be combative; with the objective of getting me to be even more physical. Because of my physical strength it's easy for me to get carried away; hence the need for a safe word.