[GRITS]

Originally Posted by artfuldogger

I disagree, GRITS.
In the throws of passion, depending on the scenario being played out, roleplay, submissive, subservient, dominant, sexual boundries, BDSM, S&M, edging, any sexual act that is pushing the normal play to another level, then there should be a word not commonly used between the agreeing parties involved.

It just makes a clear indication that the line has been drawn and to step back.

Yes, i SAID there is no problem w/ a safe word if you need it......... my point was that if your playing like that,,, you "should" be able to recognize distress... otherwise maybe think about not playing that was untill you know the ropes better....