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Originally Posted by xxxxenophile

Just to clarify - it's not that we can't speak english, but if you're doing role-playing or with someone who likes to "resist" by saying no and fighting back, then a safeword is the logical way to ensure that you have consent even when the other party is calling for the cops or you to die in a fire or whatever. Not something that everyone feels the need to do or has the imagination to play around with such topics, but for those that do, and for the education of the greater populace, a safeword is now mainstream.

Then you should be able to recognize distress....if your "role play" is too deep w/ bondage & resistance , etc....you shouldn't be playing if you don't know the real situtation to react.......

But I never saw a problem in a "code" word if thats what you need...