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Originally Posted by xxxxenophile
Given the things we get up to, and the fact that it's often with third parties whom we don't know as well, we ALWAYS have a safeword - usually two, i.e. Red to stop and Yellow to slow down/back off that action/change to something else.
It's just good practice, and common courtesy in today's world!
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Just to clarify - it's not that we can't speak english, but if you're doing role-playing or with someone who likes to "resist" by saying no and fighting back, then a safeword is the logical way to ensure that you have consent even when the other party is calling for the cops or you to die in a fire or whatever. Not something that everyone feels the need to do or has the imagination to play around with such topics, but for those that do, and for the education of the greater populace, a safeword is now mainstream.