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Originally Posted by ulsafiu
I'm not trying to start a discussion here, but I got to say that you are right in one thing: No man or woman should accept something he is not comfortable with. However, not everyone feels uncomfortable with the same things or to the same extent.
When my girlfriend did that, I didn't feel aroused, excited or anything like it (and she knew it); so we had a huge fight about it. After some years, I started to like the idea of "sharing" but until certain extent.
There are guys in this forum whose wives have sex with a lot of guys and they love it. As of right now, it would be impossible for me to do that; but I can't assure you that I won't ever do it in my lifetime. Everyone's lives are different and so are their boundaries and what excites them.
I believe that the main goal of this life is to be happy; it doesn't matter the way you do it (as long as nobody is harmed); so if you are happy by sharing your SO; what's wrong with it?
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True I guess everybody's definition of " comfortable" and "happy" is different ...just curious if fear of woman leaving was part of it...
Ok moving on...