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Originally Posted by Onestopfuckshop
Is it a fear a man has that another woman will never love him why he chooses to share rather than set boundaries with his woman and dump her if she crosses the line? Especially when the man is clearly right?
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I'm not trying to start a discussion here, but I got to say that you are right in one thing:
No man or woman should accept something he is not comfortable with. However, not everyone feels uncomfortable with the same things or to the same extent.
When my girlfriend did that, I didn't feel aroused, excited or anything like it (and she knew it); so we had a huge fight about it. After some years, I started to like the idea of "sharing" but until certain extent.
There are guys in this forum whose wives have sex with a lot of guys and they love it. As of right now, it would be impossible for me to do that; but I can't assure you that I won't ever do it in my lifetime. Everyone's lives are different and so are their boundaries and what excites them.
I believe that the main goal of this life is to be happy; it doesn't matter the way you do it (as long as nobody is harmed); so if you are happy by sharing your SO; what's wrong with it?