I've posted about this here before, but I'll echo some of the sentiments I've read here.
Both my ex and my fiancée was/is relatively "conservative." My fiancée used to be a little more daring; but secretive about it. They both have exhibitionist tendencies; but it's sporadic and self-motivated - I have very little to do with it. If I tried to push them they would turn me down flat.
I introduced them both to nudism. When my ex became comfortable with it, she became more open, started shaving and opening her legs more while sunbathing or socializing. When she did, people invariably looked at her. At first I was "concerned." Then I got used to it. Then I enjoyed it. The nudist resort was the only place people could freely look at my ex completely naked. For me it was pride. She was attractive; and men enjoyed seeing her sprawled out with her cooch out. And to see those guys appreciating my wife's nudity made me proud of being with her. And that was the closest thing to sharing her that I could get to.
It was the same with my fiancée. As she walked with me naked on the beach, I could almost feel the stares. It put a big smile on my face.
I think it's natural to want to share your partner in one way or another. Be it in pictures, or in the flesh.
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