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Originally Posted by genedad
If anyone has read my posts listed under "sharing the ex" I was once married to the most highly sexed creature I ever met. Her name was Dan and you can read about our adventures there.
As our relationship continued, I figured out certain things about both Dawn and myself. If there was another woman involved, Dawn was in charge of the action. She would tell me what to do and I didn't mind being subservient. This kept any jealousy on Dawn's part to a minimum.
The same applied to men. As long as I felt that I was giving others Dawn's body, and saying how it should be shared, there was no jealousy. Just like letting your buddy take a spin in your new car. I was going to be in the car to make sure that nothing bad happened.
Those who have shared, does anyone else feel this way?
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Loving your stories! She sounds like a real firecracker.
My girl and I have shared a fair amount in the 4 years we've been together - I was blessed to find her! We have played with single women, couples and in groups. With women, we sort of co-top her, but I follow my girl's lead quite a bit since she has a good sense of how to build anticipation in the other girl. There are times my girl likes me to be in charge, so we kind of alternate between her and me in charge. With other couples, it's more fluid unless we together are dominating both members of the other couple.
My girl is picky about men, but doesn't like to cuck me - she wants me to enjoy it as well as her, and I do enjoy watching her get pleased. There are a couple of guys whom I feel comfortable with her playing with separately, but that takes a while for me to get there.
Basically, if I trust my girl to be in charge, it usually works out well, unless we've talked out the scenario before.