Good luck!
The wife and I have been swinging off and on for a period of about 7 years, with about a two year lead in period where we did a lot of talking about it and fantasizing. It can be a very frustrating experience. Lots of fake profiles, and just as many real people who will flake out on you at the last minute. It takes a lot of leg work, and if you're solely looking for a "unicorn", keep in mind these women are overwhelmed by the amount of responses they get on the sites. It's often times much easier, albeit riskier to approach a woman one of you know. The end reward is worth it though! Personally we have always had more fun and less drama with single guys. There's just something about her losing control and taking two cocks. Good luck and don't let your search frustrate you to the point that you lose hope.
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