[jacksonhole]

I like your list, but I would add: Had to do it as part of a game

My wife has gotten naked, topless or bottomless many times as part of a game. The thing is, it can’t be an obvious setup. She has to believe the rules are fair, and that the game isn’t just an excuse to get her naked.

That said, if the game is legit, she will be the first one to get her boobs out or moon the room, and depending on the alcohol content and the mood, it may go even further.

When I mention it the next day, or ask if she had fun getting naked, she always says it was just the game, not her.

After thirty years of marriage, I’ve given up trying to understand how her brain works, and instead just enjoy the surprises when they happen. For my part, I usually wait until she’s a bit buzzed and then bring out a deck of cards or some dice and see how the evening plays out.