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..........................Bonnie's evolution of exhibitionism:
I've written about most of the following here at some time or another. This is an abbreviated account of my wife's progression through the years
with her unusual brand of deniable exhibitionism.
...The wife:
* Bonnie stands about 5'4 ", about 115 lbs. and full "C" cup tits, and is often described as quite beautiful. First let me say that Bonnie has never acknowledged the fact that she is in any way an exhibitionist. In my opinion, she is what I'd call a closet exhibitionist. The word "nudist" is not in her vocabulary. We never discuss any aspect of her obvious penchant for her exhibitionism because it results in denial, and if pushed, distress. She has never shown any inclination to flash any part of her body to anyone at any time. Rather, she seems to enjoy being seen or "caught" nude or topless in situations where there is even the slightest hint of a justifiable reason for her to be in such a state. And of course, only when she wants to. I can only try create the right opportunities for her to do her thing.
....Early Days:
* During our first summer together I introduced Bonnie (and myself) to what was soon to become a major public nude beach. She really enjoyed getting naked in the dunes and away from others. She preferred to not to mingle with others, mostly for fear if being seen by co-work, relatives or neighbors.
* Vacation, New Freedom: The following winter, we opted for a trip to Jamaica. It was obvious how much more comfortable Bonnie could be naked in close proximity with others with no chance of being seen by co-workers or neighbors.
.... Status Quo:
* The next few years the same scenarios, local nude beach in summer, Caribbean in winter. Somewhere in between we become husband and wife. Along the way Bonnie pick a few minor variations of her exhibitionism, and a fetish or two.
... Defiance:
* On a few occasions we visited beaches both in the U.S and the islands where we expected to get naked, but found it was not the norm. She can become very upset in such situations. Once on Cape Cod, far from home, that was the case. Frustrated that we couldn't get access to a nude beach we settled for a public family beach. As soon as we sat down, she just pulled off her top, tits on full display. I noticed a lot of bugged-eyes focused on her. I know Bonnie got a lot of satisfaction from that. A few other similar episodes have played out where her defiance prompted others to follow her topless lead.
.... A New Beach Choice:
* At our local beach, to avoid being spotted by those she might know, we began going to very remote beaches. Bonnie seemed to enjoy this more than the nude beach, giving the passing boater, beachcomber or surf fisherman an eyeful.
* While illegal, she was still comfortable with this because she still claimed to be fearful of being seen by co-workers & friends. And since we could see anyone approaching from a distance we could be assured it was not someone we knew. It became clear to me at some point that Bonnie had become fond of being “caught" naked rather than just "being" naked. I noticed that when a beachcomber or fisherman would wander nearby, she seemed to purposely not to notice them. But when near, she'd feign slight surprise, yet not cover up. Maybe it is a variation of the "only female naked" scenario she enjoys.
..... Nudity at Home:
* We've always enjoyed nude sunning on our patio since our first summer together. But it was always done by us being careful no neighbors could see. The homes are very close together, but a small area of the patio is quite private.
.... A Reversal:
* Over the past few years some substantial changes with Bonnie have slowly come about. Somehow the fear of being seen by neighbors has flipped around completely. I believe it all began when my plan of growing shrub screens on all sides of our tiny back yard started to develop with trees and shrubs filling in, and with the addition of strategically placed large garden shed.
* With the new-found semi private atmosphere, Bonnie began sunning openly on all areas of the patio. She did this knowing full well there were some areas where the trees and shrubs did not offer complete privacy.
* Another year goes by and Bonnie began venturing out into the yard sunning, then even tending to her flowers sometimes nude, sometimes topless, and other combinations of undress as the mood struck her. It is obvious to me that by now all neighbors in all directions have see my wife nude at some time or another. When I mention this, she just shrugs it off and says she doubts that. It seems like Bonnie has developed a fondness for showing herself off to the neighbors, something she would have be mortified about just a few years earlier.
..... The Walk-ins:
* At first, she was caught nude by a male co-worker who came to drop something off. This is something that was most dreaded just a few short years ago. When no one answered the door he came around back, catching her nude on a lounge chair. Bonnie seemed to brush that off, but I knew that was a huge rush for her, especially since it is someone she works with daily. We have talked about that many times, and says how embarrassed she is every single working day, knowing that he has seen her completely naked. Yet it is obvious she cherishes the moment he saw her naked, and would have it no other way.
* Since then, in various other scenarios, she has been surprised while naked by other male and female friends of ours as well as other neighbors.
* After the first episode I installed a inside latch on our gate to the backyard, but she always insists it doesn't need to be locked. So yes, while she will sometimes later pretend to be annoyed when caught, she is enjoying it immensely.
* Bonnie always the defiant one, now makes little or no effort to cover up when caught naked in our yard.
...... Now The Front Yard:
* The latest development, Bonnie has been wear light tops without a bra when gardening in the front yard, with people driving and walking by within feet of her. He big "C" twins are starting to hang and swing a bit, and while she normally wears something a little tight to keep them under control, they are still quite a sight. So now she's attracting attention from passersby.
* Just this past Saturday I was working in the back yard and Bonnie goes around front to tend to her plants out there. She was wearing normal shorts, and one of my men's athletic undershirts, and no bra of course. I thinking that was a little revealing with her tits swinging free while she's working. A half hour later, Bonnie comes through the gate from the front yard. Her shirt is totally transparent! And she was dripping wet. I guess she saw my wide-eyed reaction and said "It was really hot out front, so I just kept hosing myself down" Oh my.
... Bonnie is Loving the World she Created!