It has been a long slow trip. Not that we had a boring or less exciting life but the added benefits have taken us to new experiences.
Confidence in herself and our relationship has really transformed her opinions of what she thought she was supposed to be to doing what she wants. Granted I get to reap the rewards in ways I have never dreamed.
We continue to enjoy ourselves and the relationships we have. Like last night. We decided to go have a bite at a local bar and grill. We are at a table enjoying ourselves. Up walks a friend of hers and her husband. My wife is wearing a tightish blue underarmor shirt and a very very thin sheer bra. So she has permanent nipple pokies. Nothing seethru just obvious nipple reaction to the cold environment. I do not know them so I'm sitting observing as they sit down and talk. Mainly the wives talking. The husband was continuously staring at my wife nipples.
After a good five to ten minutes they left. As we were talking i asked her if she felt uncomfortable with her nipples poking through her shirt in front of the husband. She said no. I did not say anything else. We get in the car to head home. She smiled and said did you notice the husband staring the entire time at her boobs. I said yes that's why I asked after they left. She said well if they didn't like it they should have spoke and moved on rather than sit and talk.
I say this because years ago she would one, not be in a position to have nipple pokies. Two, if she had she would have hid them or excused herself from the table.
I never expected our relationship to get to where we are today.
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